Rita Milan Biography

English Version Conversation with the guest of our June number - wise and reasonable, beautiful and energetic Milana Sadykova, who is very suitable for a quote from Nekrasov’s poem: “In trouble - it will not stop, it will stop, the horse will stop the horse, will enter the burning hut ...”, once again strengthened me in the thought that our incredibly integral and educated former and educated form Young people boldly are replacing us and have not only greater value in their own family and the Bukhara community, but also plays an important role in the formation of the future of our difficult and complex life in America!

What are your memories of your childhood? Tell us about your family. Bukhara in the city of my parents - Dora Gurgov and Alik Sadykov - got married when they were 19 and 20 years old, early marriages were then considered the norm and were very strong. In the family, religion has always been in the first place! Grandpa on mom Mikhail Gurgov and grandmother Zinaida - parents of 10 children - were very religious.

I recall with love and gratitude how all religious Jewish holidays cored at home together: Sukkot - in a decorated gazebo, Passah - when the whole large family sat on the floor for Shulkhan and sang songs. This is never forgotten! I have no less warm memories of my grandfather Jacob and grandmother Istat Ira, with whom we lived together. Grandfather was a businessman and a very bakery person.

There were always many friends and relatives in their large and rich house, each incoming received advice or help. Children bathed in their immense love and care. My sister Rita and I are very close to my parents, and they are always next to us: Mom Dora is a cosmetologist, works in his own salon, and Papa Alik is a successful Barber in his own business on Long Island.

The Sadykovs are a large family, and everyone always helped each other. My sister Rita, with whom we studied in the village, became a licensed NP and works at the ELMHURST hospital. In the year, the long -awaited brother Ephraim Zvi appeared. But, unfortunately, at the summer he passed away from oncological disease. He was buried in Jerusalem, on the Holy Land.

Then we and our parents thought that the earth would open under our feet from our grief, but the grandchildren and granddaughters soon filled the void in the souls of our parents. Life continues. By that time, I married a good person - Alexei Gadaev, who understands me and supports me in my endeavors. Was it a meaningful choice? All this was parallel with the birth of my 3 children and buying my own home.

Then it seemed that stable city work would be forever. But there is nothing constant in America, and an unexpected reduction is like a thunder among a clear sky. I was very nervous and worried, but truly: everything that does not happen is for the better! I suddenly realized - it should have happened!

And if I did not love my previous work and worked as necessary, then, having received the license of an agent-broker, I became a successful real estate sales. I suddenly felt that it was mine, and I love this kind of work! Yes, this is not only a free work schedule when you do not need to work in the office from 9 a.m. to 6 pm, but also a variety of different situations, the moments that I successfully decide.

I see the eyes of happy people who bought real estate, who sometimes did not know what to do in certain situations, and, of course, financial satisfaction. In my profession, performance and persistence are the main factors, and the aphorism of “wolf - legs feed” - exactly about us! What qualities should a broker have? This is a special talent to be good Sales Person!

I have a flair on what will suit. For example, I know what this buyer needs and what another needs! I do a great preliminary analytical work and can speak with people. My clients trust me and are devoted to me. And not because to buy another house in the future, although this also happens, but because in order to transfer information about me to other friends and friends, as a good agent who can be trusted.

It is no secret that there are many scammers around. I have been in business for 11 years, and I have the main customers - our Bukhara Jews who know what they want. They are solvent, and I will help them to invest in correctly. And the qualities for a successful broker are simple: honesty, decency, patience, love of the work that you are engaged, the ability to control the situation, quick wits and ingenuity.

Here, for example, the person who came from Israel has money. And there is an apartment that he liked, and he wants to buy it. But he cannot pass Board, since there is no work and stable earnings. And I will do everything to solve this problem. It’s not only that it works out well, I, by the way, is an excellent Matchmaker: six successful couples have already developed, and I am just happy that beautiful families were created and people are happy thanks to me.

Isn't that happiness? How do you manage to maintain the right family balance with your employment? And our traditional question: what is the secret of the success of your family?Father is an important person in the family, and he lays the foundations of education, and his mother must support his line. It is necessary to devote more time to children. Children trust me, and I know where and who is at any time.

I am a friend to my children and do not lazy every morning to get up early and cook them a delicious dense breakfast, during which I unobtrusively talk to them and try to direct to the right channels. My eldest son gets up early, and every morning begins with Tfilin. We are sure to gather for shabbat and light candles, make huls. The family should have laughter and joy, love and trust.

This is probably the main secret! In general, the story of the appearance of my youngest child - Josef is interesting. I wanted another son, but somehow I did not work out. I was advised that I should believe in the power of Gd and do halom on Shabbat. I did it every Friday, and only after 32 weeks he became pregnant, as if Gd checked my patience. So I made my dad a gift in his summer anniversary.

My dad took a sandac! My dear dad Alik! I love you very much, and give Gd to you many, many years of healthy life with our mother Dora. You are our support, and we, your children, will always be there!