Biography Kokova Valeria

Person of Valery Kokov. The wife of the first president of the Kabardino-Balkarian Republic of Violett Kokov was born in the family of the hero of the war, the commander of the battalion Toybi Abnokov. By the end of the Great Patriotic War, he was sent to serve the Far East. Therefore, Violetta Kokov was born not in the Caucasus, but in the city of Maoka from the year - Holmsk, which belonged to Japan up to a year.

In the year, she married a man with whom she lived thirty -seven happy years. For Valery Kokova. She admits that for her he was always a young man with whom she met in her youth, and only then - the president. With the warmth and pride of Violetta Tubievna recalls the father’s house. The similarity of moral and moral guidelines tightly binded parents. What the mother sympathized with, that was emphasized by the father.

They respected each other and taught us, their daughters, to such a relationship. From my parents, my sister and I heard only affectionate words. Well, if we were reported for something, the tone still remained loving. Father, Tuby Ashnokov, returning from Sakhalin to the "large land" that is the name of the mainland, in different years he held leadership positions.

He headed the Mineralovodskoye Association "Glavsahar", the republican "Fruit -and -School", "Kurorttorg". Mom worked for 38 years in the children's anti -Tuberculosis sanatorium "Ogonyok". Father has always been aware of all the problems available there: what the children lived, what they needed. Therefore, the sanatorium "Spark" was under the constant care of all organizations led by the father.

They, together with their mother, worked on the system of a constantly functioning sponsorship funds. Did you also work in this sanatorium? Mom - 38, sister Lara - 40 and I - 22 years old. What was he, your husband Valery Kokov? All the years we have been support and support for each other. Did you have a universal method of raising children with your spouse? Love for children is the basis of education and the most important condition for the development of a harmonious personality.

Therefore, it seems to me that our children with Valery grew up responsive people, with a good character. Valery and I were convinced that true gold is in the human soul and the relations that he builds first inside his family, and then with the external environment. Did you live a "soul into the soul"? I, like my mother, returning from work, told Valery about everything that happened in a day.

Together we discussed issues and found general solutions, our parents lived nothing surprising like that, this was the norm for us. The woman should be sure of her husband, that he is able to provide her with stability. Was there such a moment when stability was about to collapse? Like any woman, I wondered “what will happen now? I give a word, I will provide everyone!

It is not surprising, because in the fall, serious passions raged. People wanted to live in a new way and searched for this new wherever they could. In their eyes, the former secretary of the regional committee of the CPSU was the personification of the old regime. And then, on the initiative of Valery, the government and the Supreme Council of the Republic voluntarily resigned their powers "in the name of peace and consent so that the blood of citizens of the republic does not spill." And in January, he was elected the first president of the CBD.

However, in spite of everything, the republic was still in a fever, Valery sent medicines and food there. But he forbade forming volunteer units. The situation was heated day by day. A multi -thousandth rally turned around in the square. There was a civil war on the threshold. But for Valery, even one random death was too high at the exit from the crisis. You know, he possessed a rare ability to listen and hear people.

It seems to me that it was it that helped him to agree on those difficult days and prevent the tragedy. No wonder those years are called "dashing nineties"! Each of them fought for its revival and political self -determination. The situation was heated by the memory of the deportation of the Balkarian population on March 8 of the year, almost 38 thousand people were immersed in commodity cars and sent to Central Asia within 24 hours.

Valery was disgusted by any nationalists - both Kabardian and Balkarian. Being a Kabardinz by origin, he nevertheless cared about the feelings of the Balkars. And Valery did everything to completely rehabilitate the fraternal Balkarian people. It was he who initiated the process of rehabilitation of victims of political repression. Personal apologies for the Balkarian people, which President Yeltsin brought on the day of the flight of deportation of the Balkarian people, is this the merit of Valery Kokov?

In the year, the government decided to establish the day of the revival of the Balkarian people. Valery considered Stalin’s deportation “a scar that remained in the minds of many” and experienced the tragedy of the fraternal people as his own.

Violetta Tubievna, please tell us how he was a man? He read a lot, well versed in music, painting. He was a great lover of poetry and a recognized Pushkinist. He adored Chekhov. He loved Yuri Temirkanov and was proud of him. What helped him in work and in life? Decency in relations with loved ones, with the team, with the state.Sincerity and ability to empathize. He lived according to his conscience and tried to be a man of honor, but the most important thing was helped by love for people.

He loved and appreciated people very much. Each individually. He treated people equally well from different layers of society. He had no need to pretend that he was interested in man - he was really interested in him. Valery approached with great responsibility to the fate of every person with whom fate was reduced - be it a member of the family or a person from the street.

The era of the world and stability. The era of a bright, stable future.